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| Red Zhao women selling their crafts |
I've just returned to Sapa after spending a night with a Red Zhao family in the nearby village of Ta Phin, a 'homestay' as it is called here. Sapa seems over-crowded and touristy in comparison to the simple and quiet life of the villages we passed on our walk to find the 'homestay' providers.
So, we set off yesterday morning along the road to Lao Cai (entry to China) passing paddy fields, buffalo and Red Zhao women on the way. They get their name from the red head dress that they wear, and also shave off their eyebrows and any hair near their forehead. Perhaps I'll come back looking the same...
Olivier, a French man who came to visit Vietnam 7 years ago and has stayed ever since, met us in the village. He wears wellies but the rest of him is Zhao - his clothes and headwear and he also speaks nearly fluently to the local women. He appears bleary eyed, and a bit dazed, having been on the rice wine over lunch perhaps.
40 minutes later and we arrive at his large wooden shed, or shack, is the only way I can describe it. It has a hardened earth floor and corrugated metal roof, but the rest is wood and bamboo. This is a middle class home in the Zhao tribe, complete with an open fire to cook on, pot-bellied pigs and chickens outside. Here he lives with his Zhao wife (Ta May, meaning 1st child), her 3 children, and 2 grandmothers. Kashia and I wait patiently as Oliver starts to cook and our bellies rumble. He serves us French fries as a snack - the best I've ever tasted! Then we all eat together around the fire - rice with tofu and tomato, fried bamboo and runner beans followed by slightly salted steamed dumplings, Chinese style. The food is so simple but is the tastiest meal I've had in weeks! Perhaps it's the whole experience which makes it so appealing.
For such a primitive way of life, there is electricity, 4 lightbulbs in fact. These are powered by a micro-hydro water turbine, fitted below the house where all the water is channeled through pipes to the turbine. In the wet season, they have enough power for a laptop. This amazed me! There are power cuts in Sapa every other day, a comparatively rich town full of hotels and tourists, but the Zhao family has power all the time, as long as there is rain and water flowing through the hills, which there seems to be.
It's 9.30pm and it's bed-time in Ta May and Olivier's family. The children are adorable and incredibly well behaved, going to bed straight away with no fuss. We do the same, although we make a fuss about the giant spider that lurks in the rafters by our pillow. Ta May bravely cuts off its head and crushes its body with a sharp tool I don't know the name of. I'm happy there is no longer a spider to creep in my ears, but still wrap my bed tightly in a mosquito net and curl into a ball under my duvet so that no fingers or toes are at risk from other creepy crawelys. uuuuuuuuggghghghgh shudder.
The Zhao families here work hard, every day they plough, plant and pick the fields and crops to feed their families. They make 1.7 tonnes of rice a year - enough to feed a family of 5 for that amount of time. They sell beautifully embroidered indigo fabrics and silver bracelets made from molten old French coins to tourists. Their day starts at 5am, or sometimes earlier if they have to walk 3 hours to the village to sell their crafts. We might see them as poor, but they're undeniably happy in their close knit communities and with a strong purpose to their daily lives. I feel privileged to be welcomed into their home and experience their custom first hand and arrive back in Sapa feeling deflated after experiencing such peacefulness with the lovely family. I miss my family!!